WW post D (Thanks BenB part 4)

[Mumin]

Hey everyone, Its been a while!

Been reading the forums almost every day but much hasnt changed (till this past week) and I havnt gotten around to journal. (Also, I had been journaling abit to myself but my phone broke so I dont recall everything.)
Anyway, summer vacations was really nice but from time to time things felt off.
Spent some really good times with the kids and my parents as well as a 10 day to myself.
W apparently went abroad (pretty sure with whom she went but didnt ask anything).
I maintain about 3-4 HEAVY weightlifting sessions a week. People are noticing.
Sitch highlights since last time:
* Since W brought NOTHING up the past few months I just said I was going to look at the house I mentioned here earlier. It eas nice but Id prefer to stay in my current house and it got her talking. So we agreed its best if I buy here share fo the house but I have been clear bout it not being at market price. I went and found a lawyer that is willing to do the remaining paperwork at a fixed price. W agreed two days ago to proceed. Now we must agree on the main posts of the asset list, House, Cars, Loans. Then We'll be DONE!

* W thinks she can get a 4-room apartment but she hasnt even spoken to the bank yet...
This shows how juvenile she is. I don't believe she is Wayward anymore but it seems she still hasn't realized whats actually happening. She has definitely not done ANY work on herself (Yet).

* W claims she is going to talk to a therapist. But she also said she told her dad to find her one. I believe nothing she says.

* D6 started elementary school and we are actually co-parenting pretty well. She did a huge cleaning of the house and made a list of all the clothes and equipment that we need to get for the kids.

* Second day after vacation W got angry because she didn't think I would be staying in the house while she is here anymore. What the F is she thinking??? I basically said " Thinks will remain as they were before vacations, and so you know my brother is selling his apartment so I cant really stay there right now".
Also, while eating dinner together D3 asked to hear her new favorite song. These are some of the lyrics :
"Do you really think he cares for you?"
"Its been a year since we broke up. Isnt there anything that you miss about me?"
"Do you think he cares for you? The way I care for you?"
W actually shed a tear during that dinner. Very strange at the table but I laughed really hard after.

* It is hard living under the same roof. Detachment gets hit and we are talking ordinary thing a bit too much (she initiates). This has been the main driver for me to force the remaining paper work. I want to move on.