Kids are smart. And they are perceptive. Initially I divulged very little to them, but as I move forward with my healing, I realized that it would be important for them to know some age appropriate truths as well. I do not plan on playing cover up for my H. I made it clear to the children that I am not okay with H’s decisions and behavior. That is not what I seek in a husband, a father, or a man. But I also said to my eldest that he must also have some opinion about his father. Whatever it is, he gets to decide. I think it has been the best for them that my H moved out early on.
