Quick notes: H (45) BD Aug 2019, no kids, M 16yrs, EA - April 2019...prob over not sure. H in full ignore /running behaviour mode while still living here
The storm has not passed and continues to flare up and die down, but yet I feel a stronger calmness that has come over me....it comes and goes but I like how it stays a little longer now. Still so many questions...
From my previous thread and post (full story one thread back), I just experienced a verbal spew from H and walked away wondering the following:
Originally Posted by Kindly
Since then the excessive exercise has ramped up to a ridiculous level again, and I feel like he’s crawled back into a deeper whole then where he started.
Did I handle this ok? Should I let this stop me from safety having people over again? For my own curiosity is anyone an expert of MLC stages? What stage does this behaviour seem like? Why is the behaviour so backwards? (back to a month after BD) Could his return to work and the potential to see ow (from 1year ago April) be a trigger of some sort?
Sorry lots of curiosity questions....but still focusing on me.
I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that he’s gone so deep into disconnecting and ignoring again but he’s added some new strange behaviours..ie: installing camera, closing off rooms, comes upstairs and doesn’t turn any lights on, working 14 hr days then excessively exercising as soon as he gets in, sharing our business with neighbours. Maybe this is all normal but it seems very regressive and back to the beginning. But I guess that’s all part of this.
