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Hi

Being totally available to the kids as the stable wise adult parent will help them

To be honest I don't see my kids too scarred from their MLC Dad


I made the shift at some point, off of Him to my kids
being there for them
I was cordial and kind to XH ..He visited when he wanted at first
rules came later

Not badmouthing Xh..mostly reasurring kids a lot --it will be ok
and it was nothing to do with them
Dad was going through something and we had to let him

especially my pre teen who needed more at that time of BD

Once the MLCer moves out, this becomes easier

their negative energy no longer invades the home

hang in there

Most important to take care of you now
H may get worse as he travels the tunnel
find ways to detach read about it, get support
keep posting