I come back to a wild thread. Self-soothing, sexual positions and setting a bad example. Self-soothing for me takes on two forms. One form is about liking myself as my self. I encourage my self to keep on trying. The other form is masterbating. I rather do that than cheat on spouse. Sexual positions, that is right it is called a reverse cowgirl. A lot of fun. Here is a challege for you. Using your hands and arms for support either outside his legs or inside, slide down until just the head is in and slowly turn, just holding that position. Alternate, after you slide all the way down, turn and come up, then turn again and take the world tour.
By the way, Our kids do pick up our ways. If wife is frigid she can pass it on. Fortunely my Mom was so unhappy in her frigid state I decided I was gonna make sure my H was well f**ked. What I didn't count on was running into a frigid, mean-spirited man. Nor was I prepared to deal with someone using the withholding of sex as a behavior control switch. All three of my children are HD. S32, D32, and D33 all have their hands full dealing with being HD. I got 20 "offical" grandkids.
And I am not gonna hit myself anywhere when I think of sex, I will just use that energy elsewhere.
