Just know— this is NOT YOUR FAULT. you did not do this nor do you deserve it. Nor do your kids. But there is only so much you can do— and keeping yourself strong and sane so you can be the best mom you can to them is your priority.
You got this, Sage. You are so perceptive and understanding I know it is hard to not have empathy for what your husband is going through right now. But you need to do what you need to do for yourself right now, for your children. Don’t let your kind heart allow you to enable him.
Xoxo M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
