Thinking of you. Hoping you have an amazing backpacking trip. I know to some degree how you are feeling about negotiating the time with the kids... I am right now dealing with a ton of anger towards my H for making me even need to think about that as a real possibility. It sVcks.
That being said... it is what it is. You can only control what you can control and it isn't your H's actions that got you to this place. You are taking this awful situation and navigating it with such grace and class-- I'm continually blown away by how amazing you are. You deserve to be angry about what he has done... and you are acknowledging that and putting it to the side so that you can do the best you can for your kids. You're incredible... keep it up. And enjoy that time!! xoxo M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
