I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 21

[LH19]

KK I know you struggle with it but we lived it and know what we are talking about.

I'm scared .

It's ok to be scared but fear drives people to make big mistakes.

How will this play out financially?

You'll be fine. You might have tighten the budget a little.

Will this get ugly?

Maybe or maybe not. Who really cares.

Will this really make it all the way to complete D?

Most likely

Could I have done anything differently that would have softened his heart during this journey?

After B drop and affair. Probably not. Going the complete other way early on was your only chance.

I hate hearing from him.... I want to hear from him...

You want to hear from him when he doesn't want something and that's never and most likely always be never

Frankly, he has pulled away WAY more in the last 2 months. He is settling into his new life and he is less scared and second guessing his decisions way less as well. He is finding his happiness and I hate how that drives me to be more needy.

Illusion of action. I'm losing him I need to do something. 99.9% experience this which ends up making matters worse.

I don't need his approval. I don't need his support. But, I miss our old life.

Again, KK your old life sounded pretty crappy. I bet your are way happier a year from now.

Thanks for being honest with us.