MM wrote: I am mad as hell at myself for behaving like such a masochist in my relationship. ______________________________________
Ditto! For 22 years I've had an inner knowing to do what PM says (differentiate with a 2 choice dilemma) about our sex life, but never did. I've always thought I was angry because my W didn't confront her intimacy/sex issues. After reading PM (up to chap 12) and examining myself, I now see that I've really been mad at myself for violating my own integrity in this area.
