I think you would do yourself an incredible service if you stopped referring to him as "my H". I know your brain doesn't want to grasp the reality that he is no longer your H, but he isn't. Even if the state you live in still LEGALLY recognizes him as such.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
