Just checking in on you, I hope things have improved a bit now things have opened up a bit more most places. This has been one hard year even without marriage issues! I hope you are taking care of yourself and not beating yourself up about your kids or anything else. My teens are mostly nocturnal right now, they spend all their time on screens, they don't eat very well. And they are as happy as anything! Ds1 is an adult so I won't tell him what to do, ds2 I take to tennis lessons regularly and cut up fruit for him sometimes and nag him to look after his braces. Our household is very peaceful and content this summer, I figure it has been a tough time for everyone since March and if watching Jeopardy is the most intellectual pursuit the kids are doing then that's just fine