I'm 44 and feel like there will.be no future relationship.
Thanks for the continued input - it all makes perfect sense in the rational brain but the illogical mind always takes over. The psychologist I just spoke to briefly reiterated your advice.
I'm just finding it so difficult to function right now and just need to sound off. The problem is my wife was my main connection, so doubly difficult to break free.
I still struggle to get my head around her with someone else, even though it will continue regardless if what we both say. She has had an opportunity to put it on hold and hasn't taken it, so yes I need to recognise she is gone and isn't coming back.
