Separated 11 wks, WAH wants to reconcile (part 4)

[may22]

Hi Pommy! How are things going? One question I had-- in the MC session, did you guys talk about EAP being in the rearview mirror for good and how he was going to do that?

Also, thinking about how to balance what your needs are during this time and his-- when you said that the MC session was all about him and his feelings it totally brought me back to our MC/DC sessions which were exactly that, all about H's FEELINGS and not wanting to fake it and blah blah blah, with to the extent anything was about me, was MC validating me being upset about this but also me just needing to be okay with where H was at the time. I feel like I pushed down everything I was feeling in order to have some level of detachment or pretend detachment or whatever it was. Are you still in IC? if not, wondering if a session or two of focusing 100% on what YOU need and want outside of the context of MC could be helpful.

Hoping you got some sunshine and your roller coaster is slowing down! I know exactly how you feel. x M