Unaffectionate couples are TERRIBLE for their children. Will your daughter become another LD woman like her mother. Kids learn a lot about marriage by watching Mom and Dad. I think the same with my 3 boys, they are seeing a completely passionless marrriage. I do NOT want them to think this is normal, and thus do the same in their own marriages. I think to that PM says that children grow up to be as differentiated as their parents. I am thinking my wife is VERY similar to her Natural Mother and her Adopted mother, 2 of the most FRIDGID women I have ever seen. My wife has changed to be just like them. So we both have a problem, divorce is bad, but unaffectionate marriages ALSO are bad for the children. Maybe, divorce and then finding someone that if more HD will allow us to find a PM and to express this in FRONT of the children.
