Actually.... I just realized. It feels like three years but it’s actually been two. FS is right. When it clicks, it clicks. Until then, you just keep pushing forward and let time and determination do it’s thing. Eventually you get some distance and perspective and you start to envision life after divorce. Of course, unless you never plan on having another relationship, you then get to navigate the world of online dating (OLD). Now that is another adventure in itself...lol. Lots of highs and lows in that arena as well. Meh... I am starting to think that is just how life is...lol. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. (((HUGS)))