Hi PLC. I just remembered another poster whose husband is making his way back...Grace21. She and I joined the forum around the same time in 2018. Her H actually moved out and in with OW but he has now moved out and they are starting to piece things back together. Her thread is called “Embracing Peace and Joy” I think. Embracing Peace and something anyway. You would probably find her thread helpful as well. Keep doing you!!! (((HUGS)))