Weird Question

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PLC


I like what DNJ said

I would also add to keep expectations low.
and do what seems best for you-

Being a good ccok is a gift..
Your H will also have to feel/accept that loss if he chooses to leave

I did spend a lot of time trying to engage my XH in conversation and listening to him..
when he visited the kids

This created a friendship and i felt like I could be a supportive wife/friend especially around business issues he was having
In the end, I always felt good about the effort and thought I put into navigating through the MLC process with XH

We all absolutely do/give our best

sometimes it works, sometimes not but we have to play it out and let H decide in his time