Quote: Otherwise I am frustrated at having to hold back my own orgasm because he is NOWHERE near ready
What I usually do in situations like that (where I orgasm first alone) is go ahead and come and then make him wait a couple minutes until I'm "recharged" and ready to go at it again in a way more likely to be simultaneous. I guess I am a greedy(starving) girl who always wants "two for the price of one". :
I've also found that if he's not quite "there" and I am, verbalizing the situation before I come frequently brings him up to speed.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
