So you’ve been sitting on the fence for a long time and I think you need to decide what side you’re on. If you’re at the point where you’re gonna be friendly with him, ask for favors and ask him how his day was then you should respond to his text. If you don’t it makes you look like your pouting because he didn’t help.
Now if you choose the other side of the fence that he is in an open affair while still married to you and that you will not allow someone in your life that treats you that way. Then don’t respond.
Neither gets him back but one will earn his respect.
You absolutely positively can’t nice him back.
Relationships are about value and how you let people treat you. People will never do or say to you won’t you don’t allow them to. Do you know your value?
So I won't lie I do our friendship, closeness, team mentality but I'm not settling for just that. I'm worth WAY more.
I had accepted 5 days ago that even though he may have meant it when he said it he never intended any follow through. So frankly what a jerk leaving me till late the night before asking if I needed help... I mean either I've figure it out or not but it was hard enough risking rejection the first time. I'm certainly not doing it a second.
I don't have any desire to tell him anything... as pointed out he could contact S19 if he really wanted to know if we got it aettled.
The only part that nags at.me is that I would answer anyone's texts out of politeness.
Truth LH? I want him to respect me. I want him to find the void in his life and realize its me.
But, I dont control him. I can only control myself.... and today this self woke up to a house devoid of other humans. I better make a list of what I can focus on these next few months. Right now the attic is nearly spotless.
I'm pretty sure we had this same discussion 6 months ago. With you insisting you always answer everyone's texts, even if your moral enemy were to text.
Excuses.......
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
