LB - thanks for popping in with an update! I’m a few months behind you in the process but the similarities are striking. You sound strong and positive and I’m rooting for you. Your kids have an awesome dad.
The victim mentality may never leave her, but you are freeing yourself and that is priceless. The legal marathon takes an emotional and financial toll. Did you ever wonder why you had to spend so much money to get an outcome you probably could have hammered out at the kitchen table had she been reasonable?