*** I do need to know that I am handling this correctly ***
As I have put out here before H mentioned 3 separate times helping to move S19 to college.... well of course there was no follow through and I know he sees the move in date on the calendar.
I got frustrated last Monday as there was some business items to text. I caved and sort of texted - "you haven't gotten back with me on when we can meet in person to sign paperwork, you never contacted S19 about having dinner, you never followed up with moving S19 to college"
I 100% know I should not have said one freaking word but I was frustrated.
H followed up with "you never mentioned it"... "when is moving"... "does he really need help" H is working 12's and everything in on back burner right now.
I just simply stated "don't worry about it"
From that point I knew -actually let's be honest -I've known a long time I would be on my own moving S19 to college... After H asked about if I took more money out of his bank account on Tuesday I just stopped contact.
So today I'm driving home after moving S19 to college and I notice a text H had sent 18hr earlier. H's texts are muted. H texted at 9pm on Friday night "Are you going to need my help tomorrow or is everything going to fit in your SUV"
Uhm.... didn't he tell me on Monday he didn't have the time???
Well since I didn't see the text until 18hr later I just never replied. I also didn't reply once I saw the message.
Should I respond "sorry didn't see the text until now?" OR do noting??? I suspect everyone will tell me to do nothing but being the nice person I am I never leave a text message unanswered no matter who it is...
