My XH lied about the OW almost to the end, until I knew for sure he was with someone
I denied it to myself for a while, and I believed his lies

Truthfully, I think there is a part of them that does not want to hurt us yet they cant stop themselves

It does take some time to process the whole ordeal in our minds and accept
It was so strange to see my XH turn into a totally different man

A lot of back and forth in my mind, a lot of therapy and support from others who had traveled the road

No matter what your H does, you will be ok-it gets easier in time
keep posting and be good to yourself

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow