Weird Question

[peacetoday]

Hi

It was always difficult in the beginning of MLC when my Xh came home and either ignored me or left the room
so whatever you can do to take care of yourself right now

If it true MLC, His behavior will most likely stay the same for some time

so continue to keep expectations low, be cordial kind to him and find ways to keep busy or find peace

It i not your fault he is acting like this and really nothing can pull him out of it-

Now its more about you and self care, find support and let go as best you can day by day
hard yes I know-

if you can create a friendship with him, that may help for more contact
but if that feels difficult,
then less contact may be best because he cant be the H you want right now