hairdog, you took the words right out of my mouth. I was just about to suggest the same thing. Speaking from the male POV, I agree that the female-superior position does not offer me the kind of stimulation I "need", but I do love it. Since SHE is in control of the tempo, I generally "hold off" while in this position, and consider it "her time", and I do my best to provide the stimulation I think SHE would like. I also agree with hairdog that I've heard the feet-facing variation offers better stimulation for BOTH, although it does have the unfortunate side-effect of lacking the face-to-face connection, and a less-appealing view for both. I do like that variant as well, though. One thing I would VERY much like is to be able to sort of "sit up" (i.e. leaning against a headboard) while she straddles me, I think this would be HEAVENLY. However, we don't have a headboard...
