Hi LB -

Good to hear from you. I'm glad for your sake things are settling down and you're finally able to get off the rollercoaster. I agree with you about the fighting - its just not worth it. Obviously you have to stand up for what's right but letting the angry party burn out without resistance is the best way to go.

At some point, if internet BF is real and the move in does happen, i would think the blame will shift to him. Its always projection because it is so much easier to blame others for one's problems than look within.

Maybe one day she does wake up, maybe not. Its sad, but there isn't much we can do.

Thanks again for all your wise words at the beginning of my situation. You helped me very much.

Take care - stay strong smile