not where I thought I would be

[Fogg]

Geez, once a week doesn’t sound too bad, even if it is scheduled. The last few years of my M it was average once every 3-6 weeks.. Yes, weeks. I don’t even know what’s normal after everything I went through with my ex. Having physical touch as a love language just made it more difficult to process..

Ginger, I get the frustration with people not trying, I’m sure if feels terrible after taking care of yourself for so long and getting to a place where you’re ready to be in a relationship, only to keep finding people who aren’t. I think there’s been a lot of good comments so far related to that. I have very little dating experience but I can already see frustrations building with how shitty dating in general is. I can see why someone might sort of give up with it all after constantly putting in effort, yet never work out. I’m glad you’re finding what you will and will not put up with. I still believe you’ll find what your looking for, it may never have been in the timeline you wanted, but I believe it will happen for you.