HD wrote: Maybe you should punch yourself in the crotch next time you think about sex. Eventually, it's got to have some sort of effect. ___________________________________________
For me, being told "NO" consistantly for 23 years has had the same effect. Cemar still wants to be hugged, kissed and loved by his W. He's still aroused by the body next to him in bed. Those were particularly hellish years for me, too.
