It blows my mind that a grown man can’t keep track of a bank account balance and needs to message you about it. It’s like you’re his mother which is so strange to me.
In any case, stay NC and you’re on the right path.
In his defense I took care of all that for 10yr. And this is a bank acct that is rarely used... but you aren100% right on why he would text me that.
For starters when I did take money without telling him first it was nastiness with accusations and hate. This time it was like a casual text... did you take more money from bank?
