When she asked me why I persist with reading yet another psychobable book (PM) I told her that all I am striving for is to be able to lie in bed with her in the evening feeling completely relaxed and with no issues outstanding between us.
Great answer. Do you see the "textbook" effort to suppress your differentiation?
You know, the one thing we all fear is that our LDWs will, instead of rising to the challenge, simply run. But the one thing that is comforting me in that scenario is that they are running because they don't want to face their own issues. Secondly, if their issues are more important than the marriage, then I'm not so certain I want to be married to someone who is that weak and unadaptable.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
