You've hit the nail there Tim. I get accused of putting on "pressure" when I try to initiate anything but is expressing my love actually "pressure". No of course not. The pressure is entirely of her own making and in her own head. When she is squirming around in a sea of "pressure" on Friday night I intend to make it clear to her that Fridays is just the start of the process not the final position. I am ready to up the anti a bit now because rejection is just going to bounce off me.
Quote Tim: "If she's got you believing that simply ASKING for sex (i.e. trying to initiate) is putting too much "pressure" on her, then you need to get her to admit that what she's REALLY saying is that she would NEVER want to have sex with you if it was up to her."
One problem here. My W (seemingly hairdog's lost twin sister) has told me more than once that she would be happier if she never had sex again and "Why can't you just let me live my life the way I want to". Sorry babe, no can do. SD
