Do you realize that you play a significant role in prolonging your sitch? You continue to enable the dynamic.
I'd highly recommend what has already been recommended to you. ONLY communicate with your H via email. Be the driver of your life, instead of continuing to be a passenger with a reckless driver and complaining about his driving....when you KNOW he is a reckless driver.
You have more influence on your sitch than you realize. You are just to scared to do anything about it. Why?
Give him a date and stick to it. Don't give him options. He's flakier than a Colorado Blizzard.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
