A 57 year old guy infatuated with two different 20 something year olds. And he is taking up skateboarding. Wow. From my perspective, it looks pretty obvious he is trying to recapture his lost youth.
And by the way, no he is not in love. He only feels he is. It’s just the rush of hormones. Infatuation. A 30+ year age difference. Think of it, in the span of a year H found true love with some 20+ gal, dumped her, and found true love again with another 20+ gal. Hallmark of MLC.
I know how difficult it is to believe in MLC. To accept the things you’ve actually seen.
MLCers spin convincing tales. Their fantasy world must be maintained. They are masters of manipulation. Do not fall into the trap of believing his fantasy reality.
It sounds like you don’t know if there actually is OW2 or not. Fear response. Your imagination is leading you.
Picture that big red stop sign.
Drop the rope.
Focus on you.
What did you do this past weekend? What activities do you have planned for tomorrow?
My days off - I cut my grass, trimmed some trees, walked my dogs, visited my Dad in the care home, had supper with my Mom, watch a few movies, paid some bills, played the piano, and spoke with a new friend. That’s you btw. (((PLC)))
Stay strong. You got this.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
