I’m going to put my money on you convincing yourself you are getting a good deal so you ha e an excuse to keep contact and make him “happy”
Exchange through lawyers and cut the contact. But then again, we all know you have a reason not to do that
He was walking away and not putting claim on my house... that's 50k in my favor. I'm trying to make myself happy. I could lose my home...
I would be dumb as a rock to insist he lawyer up and I lose my house.
I'm trying to strike while the iron of guilt is hot and I walk away with financial success and stability.
I will agree in the interim I'm turning myself into a preztel... but I'd rather that than to lose a home that I just sunk $20k in the last 12months.
Doing things based on money is rarely the right thing to do. Plus why do you assume if he lawyers up you lose your home? Is that what your lawyer told you?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
