Not sure I have a reason to hope...

[Pommy99]

Well done Sage, sounds like the perfect response! I still dont get what goes on in their minds when they seem to believe that S/D means that life will go on as normal, just that they get to sleep with someone else as well. The fantasy S/D scenario is so warped - I remember early on H and I talked about our M and he said even if we get D he still wanted us to all go on annual holiday together. At the time he'd just started his EA and obviously it had never occurred to him that I might have my own BF who would want to come on holiday with me.

What is happening with the split time? Do you have an agreement in place? Is he being difficult?