I'm just going to put this here:
you can interview every lawyer in town. Not one of them will then be able to be hired by your H, as it will be a conflict of interest.

I wish I'd done that with the lawyer my exh hired. I'd had a feeling I should do so, but did not. Would have saved a lot of spewing as she was an expert at ramping him up to increase her fee.

ka-ching.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver