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Just coasting


Quick summary:

Difficult 12 months, a lot of unhappiness on both parts, H unhappy waving red flags, me too wrapped up to recognise or do anything.

Feb-i would say ea with a colleague
March-inappropriate messages on pc found and h says we are done.
2 months of living together whilst he tells me that they are just friends. I ask him to move out.
Lies, manipulations, not kept commitments, blaming me for everything.
Nearly 5 months in and kids dont know anything

A lot of spending on his part, but wanting ti have convo re money and how we go forward as it will be tights, as continues to Spend like theres no tomorrow.
Today H said he started D paper’s.

Follow up txt with are u ok? Boys ok?
I respond re boys not myself.


Wont see him for 2 weeks from Tuesday which is a relief.

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