Gigi, your husband lied, cheated and left you for another woman. I've never understood how him then filing for D is worse than that? It is a legal proceeding. If he ever decides he wants to R, being D'd or not will not prevent that.
So keep your perspective here. I see LBWs in particular struggle with D being a definitive ending. It isn't necessarily and is nothing compared to what he's already put you through.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
