I am so very sorry it didn’t work out . I know it’s just got to let down when you are looking forward to it.
I agree with everything LH says ( but shhh, don’t tell him that)
I think you might be getting too attached before you even meet. You have all these lovey dovey exciting texts. Which are just words. And when the actions don’t match up, it is a big let down. I personally don’t like too much connection before meeting. Because when they show me who they are in action, I can be more “whatever “ and move on. The reason why you would have acted different with a friend is because you truly know them and their character. You know that they really cancelled for a good reason because you know them well.
Usually when someone comes on so strong it’s a front. You can build up any expectations until you learn who they really are.
Again , I am sorry this happened. It stinks, I know.