After many failed attempts, I had to look up FML. Lol.
My best guess was - foolish male looser.
Sorry your plans didn’t go as expected. I do agree with kml - big red flag.
Anyhow, you have cut this guy a lot of slack over the last few weeks. Yes, a child’s meltdown might derail his plans. But phones work. He has had plenty of time to call you. Big Red Flag, IMHO.
Personally, I cheered as you sent that lectury text. And don’t worry about damage done - that happened long before that text. His hours and hours of silence did that. You deserve better. Let this one go. You don’t need this.
Hmmmm. I am thinking my interpretation of FML may not be that far off.
It was nice to see XH had a kind and somewhat empathic response. A testament to your coparenting.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
