I have a question re finance.

We both work so it has always been a matter of just putting our wages together and oaying for everything that needs to be paid for. We have a joint account that was meant to be savings, but it has become just an expenditure account.

So in really careful with money, as i want to make sure that we are financially stable with the boys, however his spending is crossing all boundaries.

He has also started paying with the card, which means i can see where he has been and what the money has been spent on.

I need to approach the subject without conflict, any ideas?


Im just not prepared to watch him spend my wages on taking the ow out.