Thank you job, I have an appointment with a Dr next week ( and he does too) and will ask for testing. The BD was 8 weeks ago, and I must say I cry less, but I do get a bit anxious when he is gone doing errands, etc. H does text me often to reassure me and sends a pic of where he is. I believe that he won't talk about details of the A because he knows it will hurt me ( and it will ) and he says he has hurt me enough and wants to look forward because we can't change the past. I realize this will take some time for me to stop thinking about what happened. I'm looking forward to that day!