Please visit the links that Cadet posted to you. They have a lot of valuable information to help you along the way.
Have you been to a doctor and gotten checked out for STD's? I wouldn't take my h's word for the fact that they used protection.
As Cadet said, actions speak louder than words. BTW, it takes time and lots of patience to get through something like this. It will not happen in a blink of an eye. At some point, he's going to have to face what he's done and deal w/it. You can't sweep this kind of stuff under a rug or it will continue to fester.
Also, please be patient...posters will come around and visit your thread as time moves along.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
