Originally Posted by Pax_luv


Personally, outside of these current divorce shenanigans, I can honestly say my life is so much better than it was when I was married. I’m more fulfilled, I have more genuine friendships, I’m happy. I think this is the result of really diving in and doing the work needed. Im so grateful for the life I have created. It takes time and intention but it’s possible.


you've worked hard honey and the payoff is what you've written here ^^
I'm so proud of you!!

Originally Posted by Pax_luv

Now, back to the d.. ex is contesting everything. Can’t share more than that, but my god.... we’ve got a long slog ahead of us.

it was ever thus with him.

Originally Posted by Pax_luv

Oh and-
Hello bttrfly. Hugs to you as well. I was driving in my neighborhood and came across a car with a license plate about a wolf rescue and I paused for a moment to send you good wishes. I know you’ve been in the muck lately as well.

That’s actually my new thing I started doing since shelter in place orders occurred. Every time I come across something that specifically makes me think of someone/ something, I take it as a sign. I pause, say a prayer, a good wish or set a good intention and go on my way. The more I do this, the more the “signs“ keep coming!

ty ty ty and this is beautiful Pax. I love this!!! xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver