not where I thought I would be

[Dawn70]

I’m not offended at all. I’m very hard to offend actually so it is all good. While I don’t disagree that it works for some people, I am quick to admit, in my case while I met Sparky through OLD, he was in the vast minority of actual quality at least in my area. I can’t even begin to tell you the number of losers that populate OLD sites in this neck of the woods. It is sad, really, but I’m not all that physically attractive so bars and things like that don’t work for me. I actually don’t know anyone who bars do work for unless they are just looking to hook up. Does OLD work? Yes. Are there quality men and women there? Yes. Are there losers? Yes. Same as IRL. In some ways I agree that it is easier to screen out the bad ones but the flip side of that is that it is easier to hide bad stuff longer. People have to do what works but they also need to try other things when the same ole same ole isn’t working.