Tell her your temporary plan to make extra money to bridge that gap temporary searching for more meaningful employment. Ask for her thoughts amd thank her for her input.
Personally, I would wade through a pool of excrement everyday if I needed to for my family. Or my dog, she gets the good treatment too. You seem comfortable at home waiting around, am I reading this wrongly?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.