As you can read above I had a (soft) bomb drop ("I don't think this marriage can be saved") about 2 months ago, followed by me doing all the wrong things, begging, pleading etc. which of course didn't work. Since then I've turned the focus on me, and at least from my perspective there's been fewer arguments, more agreements, and we're still living together. Things aren't just cordial, they are friendly, not not romantic. In short, what I am doing isn't making things worse, even if I have no idea if it's truly making it better.
We do have one hot button that can't wait for her to R; money. I'm laid off, and still waiting for C19 money I have no idea if I'll ever see. I'm contributing around the house, but we typically we run out of cash 2-3 days before her pay day. It would be possible to make it work for now with just her income, but we need to sit down and do a budget, and of course another one when I get a job.
How should I approach her about this?
"I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will let it pass over me. When the fear has gone, there shall be nothing. Only I will remain."
