Im ok 70% of the time! And when my emotions start to rule (im a woman after all) i recover much quicker now.
Work is going good, boys and i are away for 2 weeks to see my family, good times all round.
This is all new territory, so im not always sure on rules of engagement!
I was reading your thread and loved all the advice, you must be younger than me too (34 here) and i feel young and certainly dont feel like my life has ended. You should almost feel relief that the universe has freed you from the person your wife is. You dont have kids, lucky escape. Kids is always complicated and very emotive for both parties.