I agree with the others, standing is separate from the business of this situation.
I found myself legally separated and with full custody of my kids, 2 months after BD. My stand didn’t end.
Standing is about you and your beliefs. The business side is just that - business. Keep them isolated.
These situations are so counterintuitive; weird to find one’s self within it. H is on a journey and you weren’t invited along. His path is about him. Your financial needs are about you and the family. And your choice on standing is another facet to this situation.
Originally Posted by PLC
...wouldn't that be stopping standing for my marriage?
In time you will find, you stand for you not your marriage.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
