God - I guess it’s not just me that Covid is bringing out dads doing a bit more parenting cause they don’t have to go to work - and then the kids are left confused. Ginger - word for word what is happening with my son. Ex spent more time with him while I worked and now son is crying About wanting more time with his dad. Son Is older and easier now, ex has all these friends with kids and is suddenly waking up early and doing fun things with my son and new gf.... I gave up a lot of money in retirement to watch my son when he was younger. So this is tough watching. But I’m also glad for the help and that son gets more dad time. But worried too.
I’m banking on people don’t change. My Ex won’t wake up early with new girl forever. Maybe another year. And M. Is gonna continue to avoid intimacy by doing chores for whoever he ends up with. it’s not gonna be easy for M. He was so lucky you gave him a chance and You are so lucky to be rid of him. He’s an avoidant incapable of love and a lot like my ex. I hate hearing you remiss about him because he Just is so unworthy of you. Seriously.
