"I think if the OM was not involved at least I could be clear in my own thoughts that perhaps her judgment and or her feelings towards me where not being clouded by the highs of this new "relastionship"."
^^ I can heavily relate to that. I'll be following along to see what the vets advise.
Yes, it is very tempting for the LBS to fixate on the A and the OP. The problem is that it changes nothing that you should be doing. You should still be focusing on you, GAL, 180s and detachment. The only area it matters is in being physically intimate. Never be physically intimate with a spouse in an PA. You have to protect your own health in those cases.
But short of that you should still be DBing. I do think that in certain cases maybe a little more tough-love is necessary per sandi, but that is more about not allowing cake-eating.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
